The Fairy Tale Complex : Extended Edition

I’ve been brainwashed to look down on the things that I do or can do for myself.I was able to get my own vehicle.I still feel inferior to women who were able to get a man to buy a vehicle for them.Everything I’ve achieved has been discounted.It’s not just me.It’s most women who have had to do it by themselves and not with or through a man.If I can spoil myself.Go on my own vacations.But my own things, things my grandmother or mother would have been proud of.I am now made to feel ashamed of it because nothing in this world is valid if it’s not attached to marriage and a man.The simple message is.If you can’t get a man to do it then you are not worthy.If you have your PHD and your own Porsche.It means nothing, if you didn’t get a man to do it.Who you are ultimately only means something when you are attached to a man.I take care of my children.I feel terrible about it.When i should be lauded, men quickly subtract points if babyfather is not supportive.Even if I have been doing well on my own.It simple means that with all this and that… I am still flawed.More flawed for taking care of my children than the adult male who refuses to do it.A well to do woman doesn’t not attract a man or equal wealth.What she attracts is men who want to use her to build themselves up for other women.These men don’t want to stay.They want to grab and go. Read more